I want my mom to have another baby?

i am 14 and my mom is 42 my dad is 58 and i really want a younger sister
and my mom dosen t understand that i wan a litle sis to give advice to and be my best friend so how can i convince her to have another baby
Answer:
i'm sorry sweetie, that's really not your choice.
your parents are older, and not only is it harder to conceive at an older age, but there is a high risk for a difficult pregnancy, and high risk for a having a child with mental or physical disabilites.
your parents are probably looking forward to enjoy the next step in their, and their children's lives, and not worry about raising another child.
when you are older, you will understand.

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your Mom and Dad are at an age now where they could have a mongoloid child =do you really think that would be fair to them ,you and especially the child

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You aren't the one that has to go through 9 long, tiring, miserable months, then extremely painful labor, hard recovery time, sleepless nights, buying things for it, terrbiel twos, disipline, and even after all that, you couldn't do anything itneresting to it until its liek 8, and by then you'd be moved out of the house, and wouldn't care at all.

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I'm sorry to tell you this, but it really isn't your decison to make. It's your parent's decision and no one should have a say in it but them.
Also you have to realize that your mom is 42. Women who try to have a baby after 40 are taking on a great risk; not only for themselves, but their child. It's very dangerous.
That being said, you can still tell your mom that you want a younger sister, but you have to remember that it is her choice and your father's choice.

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You really can't, it's their decision. Sorry! I always wanted a younger sister too.
But think of all the work you would have to do with a younger sister! A new baby crying all night, diapers, your parents would want you to babysit when you want to go out...

Plus, you would be 15 years apart! By the time she was your age, you'd be 30 and possibly having your own kid!

It's also true that your parents are past the age where it is healthy to have children... Women who have children over 35 have higher risks both for themselves and the baby.

The best advice I can give is if you really like kids, stick with that! Get a babysitting job so you can be with kids. When you are a little older, you could always work at a daycare center. Maybe you should consider a job in teaching!
Good luck!

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Why don't you volunteer in the Big Brothers Big Sisters program instead?? If you mom got pregnant today, by the time the kid was old enough to look to you for advice and friendship, you would be out of college. They, on the other hand would face years of raising a crying baby, buying clothes, diapers, sleepless nights, etc. while you were off in college changing your mind about how much you wanted a little sister. Your heart is in the right place, but find a kid who wants a friend or some advice now by finding a kid who wants a big sister, rather than making a new little one (which could be a boy or someone who doesn't like you...)

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Your parents are too old to bare children, but not yet too old to adopt.

Your parents could adopt a baby sister for you.

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